Are You Monogamously Challenged?

We will discuss the challenge of monogamy all next week. I would like to begin the subject with the topic of cheating. Is it natural for human beings to mate for life? Do you feel that there is ONE person out there for people, i.e. a soul mate or are there potentially many "loves of a lifetime?" I recently read a study that said more and more women were "cheating." Why do you think that is? Have you ever strayed? Why or why not? If your spouse/partner cheated would it end the relationship? Do you think men and women cheat for different reasons? How diffucult is it for you to be faithful? These are some of the question we will try and discuss the week of the 24th. I hope to hear from all of you. Please remember to be respectful... this is a touchy subject and emotion can get high however, I must ask that you dont not use profanity, gender specific epithets,or anything hateful. Peace, Love, and Understanding is our Motto

Would you date someone who has taken a vow of celibacy?

How can you really get to know your partner is completely compatible with you if you are not intimate before marriage? Can you have a healthy monogomous relationship with someone without taking a "test drive?" In a fantasy world we would all find our perfect sexual matches and live monogmously ever after. But what if you find that you are not able to express

Does size matter?

What do you think? Is is the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat? What do you think?

The Beauty of Our World

Isnt it amazing the creatures that share this world with us!!! I am always in awe of this earth. I love to travel and see new and exciting places. This was in Monterey, California. Beautiful, right?

When its okay to date your ex's friend or your friend's ex?

So...I was at the mall yesterday when I saw my friends ex.Not just any ex but the father of her son. The guy is "hot" in so many ways its a crime. I mean tall, muscular, great masculine structure, and he knows it. While I never spoke to him. I did talk to her later that day and she said he was off limits.I knew that but I wondered why she even put it out there. I never thought he was "within limits." However, I wonderer why. I mean the have been apart for a long time. I never actually met him they broke up before my friend and I met. All this got me thinking... When is it okay to date your friends ex? Any thoughts?

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HELP! I hate my partners friends

How would you handle it if your partner hated all your friends? Does it matter to you? Do you think it would/should effect your relationship?

Contemplating the Fate of the Universe

How frequently do you want to have sex ?

Let me know what you think? Some people feel everyday was nice at one point but now feel 3 times a week is sufficient. Remeber to include you age, martial status, length of relatiohship , sexual preferance, and gender. A typical answer should look like this: Boogerbear says, I feel that I would like to have sex with my partner once a day. However, I would have been with her for six months now and I am already down to once every ten days. We both work at an adult book store and feel sexed out by the time we get home. 23/M/Dating

Poem: Comfy Couch

This poem was written for me by my soul mate. She is a phenomenal woman. She was truly made in heaven as a gift for me. COMFY COUCH Like snuggling against your favorite material Loving you feels like collasping on my comfy couch. Fluffy pillows with hidden nooks and crannys. Carressing you is the same as putting my feet up after a hard days work. Going to my relaxing place and collapsing on my comfy couch. Vegg out, chill, talk, and laugh Loving you feels like collapsing on my comfy couch. Laughing so hard at my jokes that passers by stop and smile, but feeling as though i'm in the privacy of my own living room loving you feels like collapsing on my comfy couch. By Tobi E.

Welcome to Comfy Couch: Advice, Discussions on Sex, Love and All Types of Relationships

Welcome, Let me begin by introducing myself and my purpose. My name is RuKaya. Since I was a young girl, I have been listening to the concerns of everyone who needed an open ear. My heart and my mind has always thrived from helping others see the light at the end of the tunnel.The purpose of this blog is to invite an open discussion, give advice, support and increase our knowledge on the subjects that effect our lives the most. Love,Sex, and Relationship. While I am not a doctor(yet) I believe that the best advice comes from people that have experienced real "drama" in their lives. I have and so have you. Together we will provide a network of "family friends" (as I like to call them) across the world. I have managed to maintain successful relationship throughout my life and I want to encourage you and help you do the same. People come first. We need each other. None of us are as alone as we feel. My duty is to provide you with instructions on how to keep the important people in your life. Starting with you.... Let me help you. I will give you advice that will allow to overcome the most trying situations. I will help you understand your Significant other, family friends, and loved ones. I try to keep each positive and focused. I gain positive energy from her as well as others in my life. We feed off of each other. What about you....? Have you developed any meaningful nonsexual relationship? Do you have issues with trust? Are you "damaged goods"(DG)? Do you lie more than you are comfortable with? How do you really feel about sex ? Do you orgasm? Well I invite you to my Comfy Couch. Take a seat. Lie Back. And let's talk ..... Love is a wonderful thing!