Are You Monogamously Challenged?

We will discuss the challenge of monogamy all next week. I would like to begin the subject with the topic of cheating. Is it natural for human beings to mate for life? Do you feel that there is ONE person out there for people, i.e. a soul mate or are there potentially many "loves of a lifetime?" I recently read a study that said more and more women were "cheating." Why do you think that is? Have you ever strayed? Why or why not? If your spouse/partner cheated would it end the relationship? Do you think men and women cheat for different reasons? How diffucult is it for you to be faithful? These are some of the question we will try and discuss the week of the 24th. I hope to hear from all of you. Please remember to be respectful... this is a touchy subject and emotion can get high however, I must ask that you dont not use profanity, gender specific epithets,or anything hateful. Peace, Love, and Understanding is our Motto

Would you date someone who has taken a vow of celibacy?

How can you really get to know your partner is completely compatible with you if you are not intimate before marriage? Can you have a healthy monogomous relationship with someone without taking a "test drive?" In a fantasy world we would all find our perfect sexual matches and live monogmously ever after. But what if you find that you are not able to express

Does size matter?

What do you think? Is is the motion in the ocean or the size of the boat? What do you think?

The Beauty of Our World

Isnt it amazing the creatures that share this world with us!!! I am always in awe of this earth. I love to travel and see new and exciting places. This was in Monterey, California. Beautiful, right?

When its okay to date your ex's friend or your friend's ex?

So...I was at the mall yesterday when I saw my friends ex.Not just any ex but the father of her son. The guy is "hot" in so many ways its a crime. I mean tall, muscular, great masculine structure, and he knows it. While I never spoke to him. I did talk to her later that day and she said he was off limits.I knew that but I wondered why she even put it out there. I never thought he was "within limits." However, I wonderer why. I mean the have been apart for a long time. I never actually met him they broke up before my friend and I met. All this got me thinking... When is it okay to date your friends ex? Any thoughts?